<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of J W</title><link>http://joy2dworld.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of J W</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Love</title><description><![CDATA[<P><FONT size=4></FONT> </P><P><FONT size=4></FONT> </P><P><FONT size=4>"Can I see my baby?" the happy new mother asked. When the bundle was nestled in her arms and she moved the fold of cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped. The doctor turned quickly and looked out the tall hospital window. <BR><BR>The baby had been born without ears. Time proved that the baby's hearing was perfect. It was only his appearance that was marred. When he rushed home from school one day and flung himself into his mother's arms, she sighed, knowing that his life was to be a succession of heartbreaks. He blurted out the tragedy. "A boy, a big boy...called me a freak." <BR><BR>He grew up, handsome for his misfortune. A favorite with his fellow students, he might have been class president, but for that. He developed a gift, a talent for literature and music. "But you might mingle with other young people," his mother reproved him, but felt a kindness in her heart. <BR><BR>The boy's father had a session with the family physician..."Could nothing be done?" "I believe I could graft on a pair of outer ears, if they could be procured" the doctor decided. Whereupon the search began for a person who would make such a sacrifice for a young man. </FONT></P><P><FONT size=4>Two years went by. One day, his father said to the son, "You're going to the hospital, son. Mother and I have someone who will donate the ears you need. But it's a secret," said the father. The <BR>operation was a brilliant success, and a new person emerged. His talents blossomed into genius, and school and college became a series of triumphs. </FONT></P><P><FONT size=4>Later he married and led the diplomatic service. One day, he asked his father, "Who gave me the ears? Who gave me so much? I could never do enough for him or her." "I do not believe you could, "said the father, "but the agreement was that you are not to know...not yet." The years kept their profound secret, but the day did come. One of the darkest days that ever pass through a son. He stood with his father over his mother's casket. Slowly, tenderly, the father stretched forth a hand and raised the thick, reddish-brown hair to reveal the mother had no outer ears. "Mother said she was glad she never let her hair be cut," his father whispered gently, "and nobody ever thought mother less beautiful, did they"? <BR></FONT><BR><BR><BR><FONT size=4>Real treasure lies not in what can be seen, but what cannot be seen. Real love lies not in what is done and known, but in what that is done but not known. Love sometimes no need to say much.<BR><BR>Read the following, it's meaningful If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the lost for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family, an unwise investment indeed. <BR></FONT></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home3/723/8552781577ddd7c1f65a91e6edd6f5c8/homep/images/1216127855">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 18:19:50 +0530</pubDate><link>http://joy2dworld.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/07/15/Love.html</link></item><item><title>Life begins here....</title><description><![CDATA[<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: #996600; FONT-FAMILY: verdana"><B><H2><FONT size=3><EM><U></U></EM></FONT> </H2><H2><FONT size=3><EM><U></U></EM></FONT> </H2><H2><FONT size=3><EM><U>Self acceptance - the first essential step to self improvement</U></EM></FONT> </H2><P class=copy>'Self acceptance' may sound like giving up and stopping efforts to improve yourself. But it is not that at all. Self acceptance - seeing yourself as you really are (and that's a much nicer experience than it might sound!), is the essential beginning to becoming who you want to be.</P><P class=copy>Real self acceptance gives you a solid foundation upon which to build yourself into who you want to become. Without that foundation, you may be building a house of cards. </P><P class=copy><B><U><EM>Honesty without guilt</EM></U></B> </P><P class=copy>And self acceptance is not just about appreciating your good points - it is more about being honest about your less commendable traits - <I>without feeling guilty or inadequate</I> because of them. <BR><BR><U><EM><B>Stop pretending to be something you're not</B> <BR></EM></U><BR>This is self acceptance and when you truly accept yourself for who you are, without feeling you have to pretend all the time, then paradoxically, your self confidence takes a massive leap. <BR><BR>Self acceptance doesn't mean not striving to improve and change but it does mean making <I>allowances</I> for yourself sometimes, knowing your natural weaker points and accepting them whilst remembering your strong points. <BR><BR><U><EM><B>How accepting yourself as you are will help you </B><BR></EM></U><BR>Once you truly accept yourself, you will waste no energy or time on self deception or deceiving others and you will develop clarity as to just <I>what</I> needs improving. <BR></P></B></SPAN><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: #996600; FONT-FAMILY: verdana"><B>The motivation to heal and help yourself is the starting point in personal development - and also the foundation upon which you can best serve others - for how can we understand others if we do not understand ourselves? In healing yourself you acknowledge your need for empowerment, so you can address life challenges successfully and experience love and joy in abundance.</B></SPAN></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home3/723/8552781577ddd7c1f65a91e6edd6f5c8/homep/images/1215249881">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 14:47:51 +0530</pubDate><link>http://joy2dworld.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/07/05/Life-begins-here.html</link></item></channel></rss>